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Flourishing Human System
The Human Canvas Academy’s core human-development teaching and coaching, guided by the THCA V3.0 approach.
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RELATIONSHIPS
Explore ego, defensiveness, expectations, communication and the everyday art of relational repair.
How does a small disagreement become a familiar argument?
Two people can enter the same conversation with different expectations about respect, care and fairness. Progress often starts by making those expectations discussable, separating disagreement from mistreatment and taking responsibility for our own contribution.
Questions this subject opens
- Expectations
- defensiveness
- listening
- boundaries and repair
In an ordinary day
Instead of saying “You never care”, describe the event, explain its effect and make a specific request. Listen for what the other person understood.
How we explore it
THCA 3.0 considers the person, the relationships and the surrounding system. See → Understand → Interrupt → Repair → Reconfigure → Integrate provides a way to move from observation towards a practical change and a considered review.
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Questions to begin with.
A moment for reflection
Illustrative reflection prompts for this website draft; not a lesson outline or an assessment.
- What do you each believe happened?
- Which expectation has not been spoken?
- What would a useful next conversation need?
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